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Chan Peng Soon & Goh Liu Ying

Discussion in 'Malaysia Professional Players' started by pajrul, Dec 5, 2010.

  1. SibugiChai

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    In some Chinese interview, Goh stated that she doesn’t intend to get married so early as some fengshui master told me. I think its 988 radio channel, not sure if the recording can be found. She also tell how she actually the one who court her BF !
     
  2. Cheung

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    She has more problems with her knees.
     
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    Ever heard of "all is fair in love and war?"
     
  4. Espírito Santo

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    It's quite common for any humble and down-to-earth Celebrity, Politician and Sports Personality to speak humbly, tell something that can "save face" and avoid embarrassment to their ex during an interview.

    As far as I know, she is a truly humble and down-to-earth person.
     
  5. lurker

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    is gossip allowed here?


    *link removed, requested by a forum member via private msg*
     
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  6. Cheung

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    Gossip is gossip.

    However, it does amaze me how small minded people can be. A person who makes assumptions and considers no other alternatives is a bit stupid (sorry, I couldn't think of a more polite description ).

    Then again, it is easier to be a troller and hide behind a pseudonym.
     
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  7. lurker

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    For sharing a link?

     
  8. Cheung

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    Nope. Me commenting on the contents of the link.
     
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  9. eaglehelang

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    GLY herself said she did not want get married so early. Ong been waiting for her for 8 years. Most likely GLY equates marriage to retirement. Not that her knees can last out very long.
    I've been following GLY's career since her junior days and I think she is more ambitious than Ong. Look at her on court, the fiercest Msia female player.
     
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    No lah. They played against each other before
     
  11. Espírito Santo

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    If you are a Chinese girl (late 20s or early 30s) and in a relationship with your bf for more than 8 years, you will understand the term of "Emotional Security" and I don't have to elaborate more.
     
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    My point was Ong would have wanted to get married and GLY declined, wanted to wait, she doesnt want being tied down(and said so herself).
    You said GLY waiting for proposal like Ong stringing her along, I think it's Ong waiting at the sidelines asking "So when are you ready ? It's been 8 years"

    And if you are female, you would understand that marriage means settled down/tied for the Asian female . How often the comment from females: "yeah if get married, I cant do this and that anymore.(Cant fly here and there for tournaments for months on end if sportsperson) that's why told my bf later only get married, enjoy single life."
     
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  13. eaglehelang

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    除了坚持,只剩坚持‍♀️‍♀️

    你需要100个理由来坚持,你却只需一个理由就能放弃…

    谁能告诉我,坚持下来的意义是什么?
    https://www.facebook.com/gohliuying530/?hc_ref=PAGES_TIMELINE&fref=nf

    Seems GLY is undergoing treament looking at the hospital setting and tag.
    My quarter pail chinese, her post :
    When one needs 100 reasons to persevere and only 1 reason to give up, tell me , what is the reason should carry on persevering?
     
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    Broken heart after her recent break off with her boy friend.
     
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    Before or after. But it doesn't matter now. Best wishes to them.
     
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    Look like you prefer to gave your own assumptions, you ignore the facts and failed to understand what is "Emotional Security" to a lady in a relationship.

    Questions and facts for you to digest:

    Did you witness or ever heard Ong proposed to GLY? If not, why you gave your own assumption?

    Secondly, it have been more than 8 years and if he wanted to proposed, he have done this earlier in the midst of their 8 years relationship.

    Lastly, do you know what is his full time career at age 28 other than playing part-time badminton at club level? How much does he earns and how ready he is to propose and step into marriage life? I prefer not to asked these questions coz it's such personal, but in order to help you understand the facts and think logically.



    To Admin: You can take down my post, if it's not suitable, thank you.
     
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    I don't think we should bother about their personal life.. :D
     
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    I'm both chinese and female and Asian, so its impossible that I ignore or fail to understand it,haha. I know what "Emotional Security" means in chinese. But I'm also very independent and dont subsribe to it. Lots of chinese female in the world, dont assume all subcribe to the same. Independent girls have their own mind and GLY surely is.

    You speculated on the "emotional security" thingy, so why cant I give my speculation based on all her previous interviews.

    There were interviews on this, with GLY, on 988 radio and Ai FM, in mandarin. If you have seen/heard/read what she said, you will have different perception on their relationship. Some have been posted in this thread. You can search on youtube.
    1)In an interview before OG 2016,before they broke up, she was asked abt marriage and answered "I'm not suited for early marriage. A sifu calculated before"
    2) GLY mentioned before she was the one who made the first move with Ong. What does this say abt her?(Nothing wrong with being forward of course) You are actually the 1st fan I've come across who came up with "emotional security" conclusion, lol

    Anyway, now they have broken up.
    Now is focusing GLY's recovering from injury yet again news
     
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    Don't be naive, I had explained above #584, whatever you heard from radio, tv and magazine interview, sometimes it does not reflect the true stories, a humble and down-to-earth Celebrity, Politician and Sports Personality will speak humbly, tell something that can "save face" and avoid embarrassment to their ex during an interview.

    If you love to make your own assumption and speculation after hearing from mass media's interview that will be your problem, but you don't have the right to reject my comments coz I am not making any speculation. If you have been following her updates since her junior days, but I know her personally and I talked to her before.

    If you have further questions please pm me, I don't like to prolong on the same topic day after day.
     
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    Thing is you do not have or cannot reveal any actual evidence.Just you (or me) saying it is not evidence. You say "it does not reflect the true stories" , evidence?
    I have spoken to GLY before and pm her on her FB page also, so? The evidence points that GLY calls the shots in the relationship, is an independent female.

    Reject your comments?It's just a rebuttal. If it was other forums they'll trash you upside down,seriously.

    So now you say you know her personally and have insider info, ok fine
     

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