How do you answer the "How long have you been playing?" question

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  1. jajvirta

    jajvirta Regular Member

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    A friendly conversation with another badminton player usually involves the "how long have you been playing?" question. I'm not quite sure what I'm supposed to answer. The first time I had a badminton racket in my hand was probably in my childhood and I did play couple of times during the school. After that, I played recreationally now and then, maybe once a month at my most active times. But even then, it only lasted for couple of months and then I might have not played several years in between.

    Then, last fall, I finally had a proper chance to start playing. I joined a friendly doubles game which was once a week. Seeing that I can continue playing actively, I started to take the hobby seriously. I've attended a couple of beginner's courses and nowadays I play at least two times a week. I have even competed a little, albeit only in recreational tournaments. (I won the last one I attended, yay. :)

    So whenever someone asks how long I've been playing, I start by saying that I've really only started playing badminton last fall, but that's not the first I time I've held the badminton racket.

    I was wondering what you want to hear when you ask this question and how do you define your "started playing badminton"?
     
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    my answer would be when the person started playing badminton seriously and not just hitting around outside. i agree that merely playing several times a year wouldn't count and neither would playing in school (unless its a school team lol)
     
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    Depends on what you'd like to signal.

    You can assure people or you can threaten them; you can assure them to be comparitively strong (1) or weak (2); you can (3) threaten them to be strong or weak (4). Your desire to raise expectations make the number of years high, otherwise keep it low.

    I think it's a good idea to be better than you claim to be within social and recreational settings.
     
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    For me its when I first started training
     
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    I would define 'starting badminton' as when you began to a) take training or b) play regularly, at least once a week (rather twice). In Germany or countries with a similar system, I'd say you start playing when you join a club.
    But as this usually comes up in a face-to-face conversation, I'd usually explain that although I held a badminton racket a few times in school, I really started 2 years ago when I joined a club, played with feathers the first time and got coached a bit :)
     
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    Well you answered your own question there really
     
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    I know, but it's a bit long-winged. :)
     
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    oh my god. I completely agree with your question. There's like no definite answer you know? So, what I say is this. "uh... I don't know. Since I've been playing on and off, it really wouldn't mean anything if I say to you that I've played for like 3 years."
     
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    um... what in the world are you talking about... :confused: wtf...? does anybody understand him?
     
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    For myself I would say:

    10 yrs casual/recreation with a group of friends and their wives.
    1 yr of more serious/competitive play with a few lessons taken.
     
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    when i first picked up a racket
     
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    oh.. tough one.

    to be accurate, i started playing in 1987. 25 yrs ago.

    if i answer 25 yrs, people always assume that i am really really good.

    after all, i have played badminton longer than Lin Dan or Lee Chong Wei have. but probably not add together.

    but in reality, the number of years and proficiency don't always have a direct correspondence.

    so i usually just answer, "a very very long time." ;)
     
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    It's now got to the stage at my club where I can answer "longer than you've been alive" (viz. 15 years) to some of the players. That's when you know you're old.
     
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    I had played a few times at secondary school, but if anyone asks me the question I will tell them that I've been playing since X (just a few years ago) when I started to play weekly.
     
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    How often does X change? Our coach has been 30 for his last thirty-five birthdays...
     
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    Since I started playing once a week (or more), which was when I started university. I don't count playing in school because we only played about six times in one year (for about 3/4 of an hour at a time.) There was a club of sorts at school which I went to for a bit, but there were no coaches and it didn't survive for very long.

    Thinking about it I now play more in one week than I played at school in a year...

    Mark A, I played against a doubles pair who had been a partnership for 5 years longer than I was alive (they had been playing together for 27 years, I was 22 at the time). Unsurprisingly me and my partner who had played together for 2 hours, lost. Getting them out of formation was nigh on impossible and they knew everything I was going to do before I had even though of it!
     
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    Perhaps over-thinking it a bit?

    I take the year I started and minus it from this year. E.G. my answer would be "14 years".

    If I feel the need to justify how crappy I play, I add on, "But I didn't start playing regularly till last year".

    :)
     
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    dammit, you mean people actually keep track? That's not cricket.
     
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    There's nothing worse than coming across a pair of telepaths like that... those are some of the very few times I revert to "HULK SMASH!!!" mode.
     

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