dating??

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  1. GTO-demon

    GTO-demon Regular Member

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    i bet alot of ppl have been wondering about this topic..?? can the boyfriend be younger than the girlfriend?? like by a year?? ..this might be a weird question... but it's quit interesting :D
     
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    Yes, why not? There's nothing wrong with the guy being younger by a year or even 10 years.

    When you're in love, you're in love. It doesn't matter if the guy is 20 and the girl is 30.
     
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    hmmm...i guess it it when u r young..but as u get older....the age doesnt matter as much...dun really noe y tho...:(...actually.....teen girls tends to mature faster than teen boys...so teen girls would go for older guys....but as a grown up...i guess the maturity rate is about the same..so it doesnt matter who they date.....

    my 0.03cent
     
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    LOL, awesome topic.

    my responce: ashton kutcher + demi moore and justin timberlake + cameron diaz ;)
     
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    Lol for some picky chinese parents, they would prefer their son to have a gf that's younger than him.


    Dunno why. Weird parents :D
     
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    Had some friends whose boyfriends are younger but the norm is the guy would be older in the sense that he is more emotionally matured to fit that of the lady. Most ladies find younger guys, especially those during college or high school to be somewhat 'immature'.

    So GTO-demon, who are you going to chase? Come on... tell us about her... ;)
     
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    no one :crying: haha..... i've just been wondering... like i mean, most married couples are like some what called " normal" ( which my mom thinks )... like the male is usually older than the female haha..
     
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    I think it is common to have a gf older than you. AGE is just a number, right guys? The important thing is that both of you can communicate, have mutual understanding and think at the same level. No worries mate. Just go out and have fun. Enjoy the friendship!
     
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    No use denying it to us.;)
     
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    so my fellow badders.. you guys reckon that there's nothing wrong with a 17 y.o MALE with a 15 y.o FEMALE? do you guys reckon 2 years is alot in regards to teens going out ?
     
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    mmm??

    You guys sure know how to cheat on your "first love" *cough* badminton *cough* :p
     
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    LOL! hahhaha.. but.. but.. but.. :crying: ..
     
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    Talking about dating, its really hard to find a GF...It's not that I've got no guts to ask, its just that I have no idea on how to go about asking...its really pathetic...and if u ask, and they REJECT u, like how they do it it basketball, its painful...:crying::crying:...I need tips people...
     
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    The time tested way is to be friends and think of nothing more than that. Get to know the girl first, or your love for her is nothing but lust for the shell.

    When you are both friends, you will naturally get to know the real person instead of the one that comes perfectly shaven, expensive clothes, nice perfume, AMEX or two. In friendship, there's no pressure to 'make the move' and if there is any kind of attraction between the both of you, then it will be the most natural and unpretentious kind. The best part is both party has already accepted each other's weaknesses and the kind of love will be very strong - you'd rather love someone you know instead of a stranger, however good looking.

    And the last bit, fate. You can try all you want to get something that cannot be yours, but it never will be. If fate it is you have with that one girl, you will eventually get together no matter how far apart the both of you are.

    Imagine, valkyier sitting down in a plane flying back from a business trip to Paris and up came a familiar lady to sit next to you. Before you know it, both introduce one another and what a surprise, she's a girl you met at the college. You've seen one another a few times in the same class but never had the chance to talk because you're both just coursemates. The closest you ever had to talking to her was when you helped her picked up the books that dropped onto the floor.

    Then you both reminiscent on the funny things the lecturer spoke back then and caught up with one another's life. Throughout the entire trip, you were a willing listener, she's the willing storyteller. Laughter, giggle, jokes and some sad moments when both of you relayed the tales of failed love years back.

    The 14-hour trip eventually came to an end, the parting was bittersweet as she had to disembark at KLIA and you back to Singapore. As you went to call for a taxi, she smiled and said, "Hm.. call me when you get back from Singapore. I missed the fried kuey teow at Jln Empat (the popular hangout for students). *giggle*".

    All right, I'm an old romantic! ;)

    Patience, young Jedi.
    She will come. :)
     
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    wise council from a chief sith librarian

    something you'd expect to hear from those so accustomed to hiding, waiting for the perfect time to strike at the jedi.


    but the wookie in me says 'sieze the day!' go out there and make a connection with someone! deepen your relationships with the people around you and you will understand them better..... get to know people.... and the rest will come along.

    huaahhhhggghhhhhh

    cheers

    wookie 8man
     
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    Personally, I don't think the age difference is a major issue, especially if the difference is just like 1-2 yrs. If u love a person, go with ur feeling, just make sure don't break the law, that's it. :D

    Personally, I just figured out that both of my ex and most of other girls I used to chased after, were actually older than me (all within 2 yrs of range, though). :eek: ;)

    Also, most of the couples around me (married or dating), actually the girls are older (but looked younger) in most of the cases. :rolleyes:
     
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    Cheers LB.. ;)
     
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    Thank you for your councel, Master. Foresee the future, I cannot. However, wait I shall. May the force be with me...:D:D
     
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    Just don't get your heart broken like me. :crying:
     

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