harmony, respect, and order in BadmintonCentral

**samuel882** · 10-04-2007, 08:44 AM

Originally Posted by kwun

despite so, our values and standards still holds. we want to see rational, respectful and well mannered discussions in BC. if you want to voice your disagreement, then do it in a polite way. if you use harsh words, the moderators will absolutely not tolerate it. we have banned upwards of 20 members in the past few weeks for directly insulting other members. if you tell us that's the way you are, then i am afraid you are not fit for this community.

having said that, 99% of the members are well mannered. only the 1% bad oranges spoils it for the rest of us.

so:

- think before you post.
- write your post in a mature, rational, and polite way.
- read your message and ask yourself if you want to be in the receiving end of it.
- respect each other's viewpoint, only then will they respect yours.
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Kwun,
I am just wondering the key measurement for above highlighted in BIG BOLD.
Please read Post #90 in <KKK/TBH might splits ???> Thread
Direct insult some one as a PARROT
And endless attack for the players.. Which is quite annoying of repeating non stop !

**tir168** · 12-25-2007, 08:32 AM

I only been gone around 2 years and what happened here?

BTW, Hi to anyone who remembers me...

**azabaz_ipoh** · 12-25-2007, 08:02 PM

i sincerely wish i will not be one of those who are not welcomed here. i love it here. and i have exchanged ideas and gained knowledge along the way. lets try to make it a reality for all our sakes.

**chris-ccc** · 12-26-2007, 12:14 AM

Originally Posted by kwun

we want to see rational, respectful and well mannered discussions in BC.

so:
- think before you post.
- write your post in a mature, rational, and polite way.
- read your message and ask yourself if you want to be in the receiving end of it.
- respect each other's viewpoint, only then will they respect yours.

and lastly:

- write in proper English, and English only.

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Sometimes it is better not to post when we are in an angrier mood.

When we are enraged, we can find it expressed everywhere, we can even smell it.

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**Dropshots** · 03-24-2008, 11:01 PM

Its better not to comment to somebody's post unless being ask to or being addressed. Just air our views seeing to it that were doing it in a well mannered way. We all have rights here anyway. But harming or insulting anyone is not part of the rights.

**Heong** · 03-24-2008, 11:23 PM

lmao, 'bad oranges?'

hope im not one of em.

**chris-ccc** · 03-31-2008, 11:38 PM

Originally Posted by Dropshots

We all have rights here anyway. But harming or insulting anyone is not part of the rights.

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Well said Dropshots,

If one is to shoot anyone, one should oneself first.

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**sharathcv** · 07-16-2012, 11:02 AM

Great to see this topic and I do agree to the point mentioned in this form.

However, I have one question: I did make couple of posts where I had added my link to my blog. My blog has articles that I have written. I did not want to repeat it here. Is it wrong to add link in any blogs? I did not find this information in the rules nor did I get any reply from the administrator after all my posts got deleted.

Any thoughts/suggestion on this would be really helpful to understand how BC works.

Thanks,
Sharath

**chris-ccc** · 07-16-2012, 05:10 PM

Originally Posted by sharathcv

Great to see this topic and I do agree to the point mentioned in this form.

However, I have one question: I did make couple of posts where I had added my link to my blog. My blog has articles that I have written. I did not want to repeat it here. Is it wrong to add link in any blogs? I did not find this information in the rules nor did I get any reply from the administrator after all my posts got deleted.

Any thoughts/suggestion on this would be really helpful to understand how BC works.

Thanks,
Sharath

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Instead of posting your opinions/comments here at BadmintonCentral for us BC members (to discuss), why direct us to another place/blog/forum?

It would be called "hijacking".

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**sharathcv** · 07-16-2012, 10:47 PM

Originally Posted by chris-ccc

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Instead of posting your opinions/comments here at BadmintonCentral for us BC members (to discuss), why direct us to another place/blog/forum?

It would be called "hijacking".

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Hi Chris,

Thanks for your reply.

Hmmm, I understand your thoughts

, but it would be the same matter that I would have to type in again hence I went for the URL.

It would be good that if such rules are mentioned somewhere. I did go through all rules before making the post. There are other forums where posting links are allowed, be it any other URL or URL to blog etc.

-Sharath

**chris-ccc** · 07-16-2012, 11:07 PM

Originally Posted by sharathcv

Hi Chris,

Thanks for your reply.

Hmmm, I understand your thoughts

, but it would be the same matter that I would have to type in again hence I went for the URL.

It would be good that if such rules are mentioned somewhere. I did go through all rules before making the post. There are other forums where posting links are allowed, be it any other URL or URL to blog etc.

-Sharath

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Glad that you have understood my thoughts.

Most BCers here (at this BC Forum) have our own Badminton blogs/sites (including myself at CCC Badminton).

But when we are communicating at BC, we are contributing to BC with our thoughts and/or communicating with our fellow BCers.

Anyway, things are left for our moderators to decide.

I am not one of the moderators, even-though I am an active member, reading and posting at BC almost everyday.

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**AlanY** · 07-17-2012, 01:31 PM

what I would like to know is what happened in that summer of 2006, anyone?

**sharathcv** · 07-17-2012, 11:12 PM

Hi Chris-ccc,

I understand your thoughts better now

. I will retype in my article from my blog. I too have a blog (badminton-galaxy). Thanks for your valuable replies, really appreciate it. Admin never cares to reply even after 6 months of posting a query and sending a private message!!!

Nice to meet you and good talking to you!

-Sharath