girl trouble

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  1. Thivan

    Thivan Regular Member

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    ok here is the problem there is a girl in badminton and i cant think ofanyone else but her also her mum comes and plays with her. what should i say.

    btw she doesnt know me that well.
    :crying:
     
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    What you want to play doubles with her? Or is it a love game?

    If it’s the former, “hi I’m ….. and looking for a partner for mixed doubles”.

    If it’s the later, “hi I’m ….. would you like to meet up other than at badminton?”.
     
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    if i play with her should i play to my best and show off or what else
     
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    Hm, maybe its the - "I want you to become the mother of my children. Become fat and ugly, and nag me all the time, because I like to play too much badminton" :D
     
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    That's a very cynical view of relationships.

    It's also a very true view of relationships.

    Thivan, I hope you play your best whoever you play with :) Don't show off. Are we right in assuming that its a love match you're after rather than an on-court mixed doubles?
     
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    yeah love match and thanks for advice
     
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    Take time to talk to the young lady between games. Be yourself, be cool, be confident. You should be able to tell if she feels the same and if she does then ask her out. If not, well, as the saying goes, there's plenty more shuttles in the tube ;)

    If it all works out you can invite us all to the wedding.:)
     
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    invites in the post
     
  9. chessymonkey

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    there is always the "Post" badminton meal u can ask everyone plus ESPECIALLY the girl and her mom to join
     
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    Dude. Act confident smooth and be yourself. Be friendly, and be confident and sure of yourself and not some poser off the street who be better off doing the dishes in some 1/2 star restaurant.
     
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    one question how would i ask her beause her mum is always there
    thanks
     
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    ask her mom, don't ask he girl directly
     
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    ok thanks for that
     
  14. crosscourt

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    WHAT! :eek: :eek: That was a joke wasn't it!!

    If you get to know the mother it'll make things easier with the daughter. Just something to consider.
     
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    Agree.

    Try to get to know her better, and be yourself. No need to be shy and hide away, and no need to show off or even be a j**k. If she likes you, she should know about the true yourself, not some mystery masking face. Control your pace and don't rush too much, otherwise you might scare her away. Be friendly and be gentle, and don't on purposely hide or ignore her parents/friends. Overall, you need to be a good friend to her and her group.

    Waiting for your good news. ;)
     
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    With who? The mother or the girl?
     
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    youre asking for girl advice...in a BADMINTON FORUM?!?!!....its like asking your mom to show you how to put on a condom....you just gotta learn to do it yourself ;)

    or you can always ask me. meh
     
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    Hohoho, Hahaha, Hehehe, It's a Love Match

    Hohoho, Hahaha, Hehehe,

    This is no longer a Badminton Match but a Love Match. :):):)

    Cheers... chris@ccc
     
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    Love is in the air~

    yeah, give time for both of you to know each other first and not rush into things. Be confident (not to the point of being arrogant) and sure of yourself.

    Good Luck!
     
  20. Thivan

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    OK badminton is on friday, tomorrow, so i will try out the advice
     

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