12-07-2007, 10:18 AM #69
In that case, you can't confess here anymore because you would be locked away from BC for good
12-07-2007, 11:06 AM #70
Last edited by cooler; 12-07-2007 at 11:08 AM.
12-07-2007, 11:34 AM #71
So, same with Wilfred, save your energy for more productive activities.
Loopy, most of the forum members are male.......hot blooded young men with lots of nervous energy, so the part on confessing sin???
Birdwood, actually one can guess the gender from the tone and manner of speech, at least for Asians. I'm starting to sound like the BAU in "Criminal Minds"
But after remorse and regret, the next day the arguing continues, too boring eh? Try arguing & fighting in the real world - workplace politics, NOT going to war fights. Some of you will find it very hmmmm interesting, to say the least.
Anyway, thanks to all the uploaders, interesting inputs, we shall have more interesting stuff next year, esp Olympics.
12-07-2007, 07:15 PM #72
12-07-2007, 07:18 PM #73
I don't think it is appropriate to paint a picture of selected members, especially of those we don't always agree with.
12-07-2007, 07:18 PM #74
12-07-2007, 07:42 PM #75
12-07-2007, 08:27 PM #76
am i a matured and wise fan ?being too fanatic to kkk,sometimes,i could be very annoying.sorry.
since my first post in may 2007,i think i've hurt some ppls.my apology to all of them.
do enlighten me if i have ever hurt u.in pm,im or u can just say it openly in public forum(well thats maybe the last choice).
peace everybody.its nice to be here,in this forum.believe it or not,this is my only forum that dont involve 'hey..be my special?' yuck..
12-07-2007, 08:48 PM #77
12-07-2007, 09:10 PM #78
peace scoon i think scoon means peace in india
12-07-2007, 09:12 PM #79
Fighting vs Arguing
To have peace, we are definitely required to stop fighting.
To me, there is a difference between fighting and arguing.
To FIGHT = To attempt to harm or to gain power over an opponent.
To ARGUE = To put forth reasons for or against something.
I actually enjoy reading an argument. This is because I get to expand my knowledge/understanding in the thoughts of our other members here.
So... an argument is an exchange of our thoughts. That is not to say that it is an undisciplined shouting match between our members that passionately believe in a particular point of view.
When we argue, there is a concept that we called 'rebuttal'.
In an argument, we would present points in favour of our case. We would also spend some time criticising the arguments presented by our other members. However, there are a few things to remember about rebuttal;
1. Logic - To say that the other side is wrong is not enough. We have to show why the other side is wrong.
2. Pick the important points - We should try to rebut the most important points of the other side's case and to show that they do not make sense.
3. `Play the shuttlecock' - We should not criticise the individual members, but to criticise what they have said. To call someone fat, ugly or a nerd does not make what they have said are wrong.
At the end..... Agree to disagree, in order to have peace.
12-07-2007, 10:11 PM #80
12-08-2007, 01:23 AM #81
Thank you all for very convincing arguments. I have to agree to agree with you. You guys are awesome teachers in BC too, where I've been enjoying reading some very nice and thoughtful postings. Thread like this one really helped to clarify a lot of confusions and misconceptions about why we fight and how we can achieve peace and harmony under common interests and principles. As everyone has done in the past, I'll certainly do my share of work in the future for the great success of BC .
12-08-2007, 10:54 PM #82
scoun to you all
12-09-2007, 12:16 AM #83
12-09-2007, 10:04 AM #84
12-09-2007, 10:27 PM #85
please explain shaoyut.im desperate to know.
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