Groups In The East

[choo soo soo]

To Max,
I regret to inform you that you are not allowed to join my group for the following reasons:
6 days ago I sent you a pm which you fail to reply. This shows that you are not serious and worst still, it may confirm my feelings that you have illwill towards me.
A few weeks ago you tried to convince the last few players in my 12.30pm session to switch over to play in the saturday morning group. Why do you need to do this when your saturday morning session is overflowing with players and my group have dwindle to the last four, is beyond me.
By the way, I have recently found out that you have carelessly added names of players in the name list before without getting thier permission first. If you forgot the case in question you can refer to page 41 and 42 of this thread. Your action have caused a serious misunderstanding between me and a girl named dub. You did nothing to correct it at that time.
I shall now removed your named from the 28th feb, list. I shall also removed kenneth name from the list. If he wants to play he needs to incl, his name in the list himself and send his contact no. to me.

[choo soo soo]

Badminton at east coast town council.

On 28th feb. 2009

at 2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars

7.daud
8. brandon
9. Jughead Jones
10.sharon
11. Bernice
12.

waiting list:Jughead Jones' friend


Badminton at east coast town council

On 7th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list.

[Brandon96]

Badminton at east coast town council.

On 28th feb. 2009

at 2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars

7.daud
8.
9. Jughead Jones
10.sharon
11. Bernice
12.

waiting list:Jughead Jones' friend


Badminton at east coast town council

On 7th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list.

[max0220]

To Max,
I regret to inform you that you are not allowed to join my group for the following reasons:
6 days ago I sent you a pm which you fail to reply. This shows that you are not serious and worst still, it may confirm my feelings that you have illwill towards me.
A few weeks ago you tried to convince the last few players in my 12.30pm session to switch over to play in the saturday morning group. Why do you need to do this when your saturday morning session is overflowing with players and my group have dwindle to the last four, is beyond me.
By the way, I have recently found out that you have carelessly added names of players in the name list before without getting thier permission first. If you forgot the case in question you can refer to page 41 and 42 of this thread. Your action have caused a serious misunderstanding between me and a girl named dub. You did nothing to correct it at that time.
I shall now removed your named from the 28th feb, list. I shall also removed kenneth name from the list. If he wants to play he needs to incl, his name in the list himself and send his contact no. to me.

I think all these are just misunderstandings. I will explain all the things that you had mentioned in your post. Firstly, i did not reply to your pm because i needed time to confirm with my friend. He said he is only ready to tell me by today. I wanted to pm you tonight to tell you whether he is going or not. I thought it was better off if i pm you after i confirmed everything.

Secondly, i did not asked them to switch to my saturday morning group. I just invited them to play with me in the saturday morning group. Players that i have invited have the right to choose which group they want to play in. Furthermore, the saturday group doesnt clash with your timing as well. With my past experience, It is possible to reach your group on time or even earlier.

Thirdly, for dub's case, it was pure misunderstanding. I was quite new to joining groups in the forum. I didnt know that i quoted the wrong message that's why i did not correct it that time. I had this problem as well in the sat morning thread in the beginning. The organiser of that thread did his part in correcting the list. Perhaps i was wrong here, but i was quite new to this badminton group thing at that point of time

To sum up, I respect your decision and hope that you will clear all the misunderstandings between us. I do not have anything against you or anyone in the forum. After reading this post, I hope you will understand the whole situation. In this forum, we are all gathered here to enjoy have fun and sweat it out. Badminton brings us together, not bring us apart.

[choo soo soo]

I think all these are just misunderstandings. I will explain all the things that you had mentioned in your post. Firstly, i did not reply to your pm because i needed time to confirm with my friend. He said he is only ready to tell me by today. I wanted to pm you tonight to tell you whether he is going or not. I thought it was better off if i pm you after i confirmed everything.

Secondly, i did not asked them to switch to my saturday morning group. I just invited them to play with me in the saturday morning group. Players that i have invited have the right to choose which group they want to play in. Furthermore, the saturday group doesnt clash with your timing as well. With my past experience, It is possible to reach your group on time or even earlier.

Thirdly, for dub's case, it was pure misunderstanding. I was quite new to joining groups in the forum. I didnt know that i quoted the wrong message that's why i did not correct it that time. I had this problem as well in the sat morning thread in the beginning. The organiser of that thread did his part in correcting the list. Perhaps i was wrong here, but i was quite new to this badminton group thing at that point of time

To sum up, I respect your decision and hope that you will clear all the misunderstandings between us. I do not have anything against you or anyone in the forum. After reading this post, I hope you will understand the whole situation. In this forum, we are all gathered here to enjoy have fun and sweat it out. Badminton brings us together, not bring us apart.

I am glad you do not bear ill-will towards me and I hope you will show it in your action. A majority of us will not be playing 2 times a day; so in that sense it does clash.
Your explanation as to why you did not reply shows that you did not get agreement of your friend before including his name in the list; it is like putting a horse before a cart. If you are not sure then you should put him on the waiting list.
I hope badminton would bring us together; so I do not understand why a young girl in your group who seems so eager to join my 12.30 session and who promises to come on a regular basis should suddenly disappear from the group without explanation?
Because of your above words I will lift the ban; you can now join if you want to, and I hope you will also be able to convince that young girl to honor her promise.

[max0220]

I am glad you do not bear ill-will towards me and I hope you will show it in your action. A majority of us will not be playing 2 times a day; so in that sense it does clash.
Your explanation as to why you did not reply shows that you did not get agreement of your friend before including his name in the list; it is like putting a horse before a cart. If you are not sure then you should put him on the waiting list.
I hope badminton would bring us together; so I do not understand why a young girl in your group who seems so eager to join my 12.30 session and who promises to come on a regular basis should suddenly disappear from the group without explanation?
Because of your above words I will lift the ban; you can now join if you want to, and I hope you will also be able to convince that young girl to honor her promise.

It seems like i have to clear up this misunderstanding again. Firstly, I am just being nice to invite those players that i have met from your session to play with me. I had no other intentions other than just inviting them over to have fun. As you have mentioned, maybe it does clash. Everyone see things in different perspectives. It is up to the individual to decide whether they want to play once or twice in a day. In my opinion, i think it is fine to have 2 sessions in a day. I must stress that i was just being nice to invite them to play with me. Those who are invited have a choice whether they want to join me or not.

Secondly, my friend agreed to come with me to your session. He said he just needs time for confirmation. As for the girl's case, i do not know the reason why she do not want to join your group. Although i attend the same group where she attends, i am not close with her and i do not even have her contact number. If i am not wrong, she is not available every week due to the fact that i do not see her in my sat morning group regularly as well. You may wish to ask her directly for the reason why she is not attending your session regulary.

Once again, i respect any decisions made by you. I will join your session once i have the time. To join your group, do i have to reply your pm straight away? Do you have a timeframe for replies? If you do please inform me. I guess different groups have their own sets of rules. Perhaps you can post your own set of rules in your thread as well? It will be more informative and these kind of misunderstandings will be avoided. If you dont mind, i would like to give you a suggestion. Perhaps you may check your thread once in a while to update the list to avoid misquoting. I believe those who are new to this badminton group thing may have the tendency to quote the wrong list.
Although sometimes small misunderstandings can lead to an argument but we are all here to make friends not have more enemies. I really do hope that this incident will not affect our friendship and my reputation in the forum as well.

[choo soo soo]

Badminton at east coast town council.

On 28th feb. 2009

at 2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars

7.daud
8. chiu
9. Jughead Jones
10.sharon
11. Bernice
12.

waiting list:Jughead Jones' friend


Badminton at east coast town council

On 7th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list.

[youngg]

Badminton at east coast town council.

On 28th feb. 2009

at 2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars

7.daud
8. chiu
9. Jughead Jones
10.sharon
11. Bernice
12. youngg

waiting list:Jughead Jones' friend


Badminton at east coast town council

On 7th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list.

Hi soo;
I key in my name for the 28th feb game. Thnaks

[choo soo soo]

Badminton at east coast town council

On 7th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list.


On 14th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list:

[choo soo soo]

Badminton at east coast town council

On 7th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.chiu
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list.


On 14th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list:

Note: If there are enough beginners who like to play in the 12.30 to 2.30pm session, I should be able to restart the session. If you are interested please pm or sms(90837843). Thanks

[choo soo soo]

Badminton at east coast town council

On 7th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.chiu
8.daud
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list.


On 14th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list:

Note: If there are enough beginners who like to play in the 12.30 to 2.30pm session, I should be able to restart the session. If you are interested please pm or sms(90837843). Thanks

[choo soo soo]

Badminton at east coast town council

On 7th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.chiu
8.daud
9.sharon
10.
11.
12.

waiting list.


On 14th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list:

Note: If there are enough beginners who like to play in the 12.30 to 2.30pm session, I should be able to restart the session. If you are interested please pm or sms(90837843). Thanks

[choo soo soo]

Badminton at east coast town council

On 7th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.chiu
8.daud
9.sharon
10.SC
11.
12.

waiting list.


On 14th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list:

Note: If there are enough beginners who like to play in the 12.30 to 2.30pm session, I should be able to restart the session. If you are interested please pm or sms(90837843). Thanks

[choo soo soo]

Badminton at east coast town council

On 7th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.chiu
8.daud
9.sharon
10.SC
11.lemuel
12.

waiting list.


On 14th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list:

Note: We play on 2 courts. My contact no. is 90847843

[choo soo soo]

Badminton at east coast town council

On 7th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.chiu
8.daud
9.sharon
10.SC
11.lemuel
12.salim

waiting list.


On 14th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list:

Note: We play on 2 courts. My contact no. is 90847843

[choo soo soo]

Badminton at east coast town council

On 7th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.daud
9.sharon
10.SC
11.lemuel
12.salim

waiting list.


On 14th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list:

Note: one cancellation today.

[kelvin246]

Badminton at east coast town council

On 7th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7. Kelvin
8.daud
9.sharon
10.SC
11.lemuel
12.salim

waiting list.


On 14th march 2009

2.30 to 4.30pm

1. to 6. taken by regulars
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.

waiting list:

Note: one cancellation today.

HI Choo, Its been awhile, seeya this afternoon.