Dating Issue

[Dead Fish]

I've been considering asking out a girl from my club however there are a few issues, she's two years younger then me (I'm 13 she's 11), the coach is basically her uncle, I really would prefer not to mess up our friendship if possible, and whenever I go to ask her out I start stuttering and shake so badly that some people check to see if I'm having a seizure. Does anyone have some advice?

[jhirata]

Ah, let me observe the other members' comments.. haha I want to know how. I'm in a similar situation :P

[Matt]

Two years difference is fine. If the age difference is signficantly, then problems would occur unless otherwise.

[jhirata]

Two years difference is fine. If the age difference is signficantly, then problems would occur unless otherwise.

Haha.. imagine an eleven year old girl and a 40 year old, grown man.. he'd be considered as a paedophile.

[cooler]

Haha.. imagine an eleven year old girl and a 40 year old, grown man.. he'd be considered as a paedophile.

u should do a bit of research instead of learning from hear-say or a forum before generalizing on the topic of love. I doubt a badminton forum is a good place to get dating or marriage tips, maybe just some personal account of their own personal experience


http://www.ics.uci.edu/~dan/genealog.../analysis.html

http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?id=...sband-and-wife


who's pedioing who or is it?
http://believe-or-not.blogspot.com/2...-woman-82.html

[jhirata]

u should do a bit research instead of learning from hear-say before generalizing on the topic of love.


http://www.ics.uci.edu/~dan/genealogy/Krakow/analysis.html

http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?id=...sband-and-wife


who's pedioing who?
http://believe-or-not.blogspot.com/2...-woman-82.html

Wow, interesting. Thanks for doing some 'research' for me then.

Those are some very interesting figures you've found there.
Relative ages

The groom was older in 2944 (70%), the bride was older in 843 (20%), and equal ages in 421 (10%) of the records.

Groom older by years Equal Bride older by years
10+ 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10+
408 72 110 130 199 265 327 413 524 496 421 297 205 107 90 40 31 21 19 5 28

Some of us, younger-people ( especially myself ) are ignorant. Well,
atleast you've helped me become less ignorant of some things and I
thank you for that.

[extremenanopowe]

play and train more badminton. too young to think about dating. Girls will come to you when you are good. Invest on your time wisely.

[Khawai]

Woah. You're only 13 and you're thinking about dating.:P A 2 year difference is fine. My girlfriend is 2 years younger than me.

[Pemuda]

Woah. You're only 13 and you're thinking about dating.:P A 2 year difference is fine. My girlfriend is 2 years younger than me.

If I m single, I would like to date an older woman

[Shifty]

http://www.ics.uci.edu/~dan/genealog.../analysis.html

Among the records that I have reviewed, the greatest number of children born to one couple was 19. In this case, there were 16 sons and 3 daughters.

solid effort wouldn't you agree?

[Oldhand]

I've been considering asking out a girl from my club however there are a few issues, she's two years younger then me (I'm 13 she's 11), the coach is basically her uncle, I really would prefer not to mess up our friendship if possible, and whenever I go to ask her out I start stuttering and shake so badly that some people check to see if I'm having a seizure. Does anyone have some advice?

Are you sure she's allowed out on a date at all of 11 years?

'The coach is basically her uncle' - what's this anyway?
1. He's her uncle...
2. He's like her uncle...
3. He's more her uncle than a coach...
Basically, what does this mean?

[Matt]

Jerry Springer anyone?!?!

[Dead Fish]

Are you sure she's allowed out on a date at all of 11 years?

'The coach is basically her uncle' - what's this anyway?
1. He's her uncle...
2. He's like her uncle...
3. He's more her uncle than a coach...
Basically, what does this mean?

Biologically speaking he's not her uncle however he's her dad's friend and outside of practice she refers to him as uncle and he treats her like a niece. He's also really protective.

[cooler]

Biologically speaking he's not her uncle however he's her dad's friend and outside of practice she refers to him as uncle and he treats her like a niece. He's also really protective.

lol, that's even worst, she has a bodyguard. Yep, you're a dead fish.

[Dead Fish]

lol, that's even worst, she has a bodyguard. Yep, you're a dead fish.

The coach gave me that nickname too, is this really that bad?

[drifit]

The coach gave me that nickname too, is this really that bad?

if....
if i am her dad, i will make you a dead fish.......
dating my 11 year old daughter...??!!!

[Dead Fish]

if....
if i am her dad, i will make you a dead fish.......
dating my 11 year old daughter...??!!!

Well then I'm glad your in Malaysia .