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    I've been considering asking out a girl from my club however there are a few issues, she's two years younger then me (I'm 13 she's 11), the coach is basically her uncle, I really would prefer not to mess up our friendship if possible, and whenever I go to ask her out I start stuttering and shake so badly that some people check to see if I'm having a seizure. Does anyone have some advice?

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    Ah, let me observe the other members' comments.. haha I want to know how. I'm in a similar situation :P

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    Two years difference is fine. If the age difference is signficantly, then problems would occur unless otherwise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Matt View Post
    Two years difference is fine. If the age difference is signficantly, then problems would occur unless otherwise.
    Haha.. imagine an eleven year old girl and a 40 year old, grown man.. he'd be considered as a paedophile.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jhirata View Post
    Haha.. imagine an eleven year old girl and a 40 year old, grown man.. he'd be considered as a paedophile.
    u should do a bit of research instead of learning from hear-say or a forum before generalizing on the topic of love. I doubt a badminton forum is a good place to get dating or marriage tips, maybe just some personal account of their own personal experience


    http://www.ics.uci.edu/~dan/genealog.../analysis.html

    http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?id=...sband-and-wife


    who's pedioing who or is it?
    http://believe-or-not.blogspot.com/2...-woman-82.html
    Last edited by cooler; 07-06-2008 at 04:24 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cooler View Post
    u should do a bit research instead of learning from hear-say before generalizing on the topic of love.


    http://www.ics.uci.edu/~dan/genealogy/Krakow/analysis.html

    http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?id=...sband-and-wife


    who's pedioing who?
    http://believe-or-not.blogspot.com/2...-woman-82.html
    Wow, interesting. Thanks for doing some 'research' for me then.

    Those are some very interesting figures you've found there.
    Relative ages

    The groom was older in 2944 (70%), the bride was older in 843 (20%), and equal ages in 421 (10%) of the records.

    Groom older by years Equal Bride older by years
    10+ 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10+
    408 72 110 130 199 265 327 413 524 496 421 297 205 107 90 40 31 21 19 5 28

    Some of us, younger-people ( especially myself ) are ignorant. Well,
    atleast you've helped me become less ignorant of some things and I
    thank you for that.

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    play and train more badminton. too young to think about dating. Girls will come to you when you are good. Invest on your time wisely.

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    Woah. You're only 13 and you're thinking about dating.:P A 2 year difference is fine. My girlfriend is 2 years younger than me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Khawai View Post
    Woah. You're only 13 and you're thinking about dating.:P A 2 year difference is fine. My girlfriend is 2 years younger than me.
    If I m single, I would like to date an older woman

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    http://www.ics.uci.edu/~dan/genealog.../analysis.html

    Among the records that I have reviewed, the greatest number of children born to one couple was 19. In this case, there were 16 sons and 3 daughters.

    solid effort wouldn't you agree?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dead Fish View Post
    I've been considering asking out a girl from my club however there are a few issues, she's two years younger then me (I'm 13 she's 11), the coach is basically her uncle, I really would prefer not to mess up our friendship if possible, and whenever I go to ask her out I start stuttering and shake so badly that some people check to see if I'm having a seizure. Does anyone have some advice?
    Are you sure she's allowed out on a date at all of 11 years?

    'The coach is basically her uncle' - what's this anyway?
    1. He's her uncle...
    2. He's like her uncle...
    3. He's more her uncle than a coach...
    Basically, what does this mean?

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    Jerry Springer anyone?!?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Oldhand View Post
    Are you sure she's allowed out on a date at all of 11 years?

    'The coach is basically her uncle' - what's this anyway?
    1. He's her uncle...
    2. He's like her uncle...
    3. He's more her uncle than a coach...
    Basically, what does this mean?
    Biologically speaking he's not her uncle however he's her dad's friend and outside of practice she refers to him as uncle and he treats her like a niece. He's also really protective.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dead Fish View Post
    Biologically speaking he's not her uncle however he's her dad's friend and outside of practice she refers to him as uncle and he treats her like a niece. He's also really protective.
    lol, that's even worst, she has a bodyguard. Yep, you're a dead fish.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cooler View Post
    lol, that's even worst, she has a bodyguard. Yep, you're a dead fish.
    The coach gave me that nickname too, is this really that bad?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dead Fish View Post
    The coach gave me that nickname too, is this really that bad?
    if....
    if i am her dad, i will make you a dead fish.......
    dating my 11 year old daughter...??!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by drifit View Post
    if....
    if i am her dad, i will make you a dead fish.......
    dating my 11 year old daughter...??!!!
    Well then I'm glad your in Malaysia .

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