the problem was we did not know what each other looked like. if not for the fact i recognized ants i would not have had the chance to meet the boys (some might be called uncles here in the thread but i think most of them are 21 at heart ). would have loved to meet the gals as well. next time hopefully.
Hopes we take this as an lesson --> exchange contact before arranging for a gathering.. Sorry for those who would like to meet but need to keep their contact as privacy..