Had a bit of a minor set-to tonight.
I spotted someone I'd never seen before when I walked into the hall, and could see within ten seconds that he was a very good player, probably ex-county or higher in his younger days. But I wasn't going to just roll over and let him win, I would make him work for every point as much as I could.
So he did a flick serve to me but it wasn't continuous; he started, I moved forward, he stopped then served again and I moved back and it was out.
He then called out, "I'll let you have that even though you moved" and I said, "It was a foul serve anyway, it wasn't one continuous movement". Now he was one of those types used to being fawned over and listened to, not talked back at or challenged, so he looked a bit shocked!
But I was in the wrong regarding club etiquette, I should've just said, "thank you!" or something, but I will always stand up for myself, especially if someone accuses me of cheating. I am the rebel without a clue!
Anyway, I apologised after the game was finished (which we won, despite being 14-5 down!) and he gave me a mini lecture, but I know I wouldn't do anything different if it happened again, just try and be less heated I suppose!
The upshot is, Badminton etiquette says that you only call your own shots a foul, never your opponents. But I studiously avoid moving before the shuttle is hit at serve, I always wait, and I think tonight's incident was 50/50 - it was cause and effect (his cause and my effect).
Would you have reacted differently or do I just need to grow up? (I'm 45!)
Derek
I spotted someone I'd never seen before when I walked into the hall, and could see within ten seconds that he was a very good player, probably ex-county or higher in his younger days. But I wasn't going to just roll over and let him win, I would make him work for every point as much as I could.
So he did a flick serve to me but it wasn't continuous; he started, I moved forward, he stopped then served again and I moved back and it was out.
He then called out, "I'll let you have that even though you moved" and I said, "It was a foul serve anyway, it wasn't one continuous movement". Now he was one of those types used to being fawned over and listened to, not talked back at or challenged, so he looked a bit shocked!
But I was in the wrong regarding club etiquette, I should've just said, "thank you!" or something, but I will always stand up for myself, especially if someone accuses me of cheating. I am the rebel without a clue!
Anyway, I apologised after the game was finished (which we won, despite being 14-5 down!) and he gave me a mini lecture, but I know I wouldn't do anything different if it happened again, just try and be less heated I suppose!
The upshot is, Badminton etiquette says that you only call your own shots a foul, never your opponents. But I studiously avoid moving before the shuttle is hit at serve, I always wait, and I think tonight's incident was 50/50 - it was cause and effect (his cause and my effect).
Would you have reacted differently or do I just need to grow up? (I'm 45!)
Derek