should i ask her out?

What goes around comes around, right?
By the way, hope you'll find someone that suits you better, and don't kick her anymore. Hahahah

 

its ok for me being kicked.who cares?u dont like me.let be it.

i respect the guys who 'kicked' me more than those who being spoilted me.
theres a guy.theres no declaration but quite special.
everytime we're on crisis,he'll sulking n cry.whats that?
i mean whos the gal here?he or me?

so crosscourt.'kicked' them if u want to.in a proper way.for proper reasons.
theres nothing wrong.

 

That's the point. If you're strong, maybe a weaker guy is good and vise verse. Otherwise two hot heads can collide too often and end up going separate ways

 

ahh, he's the cry-baby sensitive type! some girls go for that!

 

a man should be a leader.
a strong lady or a strong gal need a leader too.its ok to be emotional but be a man la.
hes nice.dont be misunderstood.but he must learn to appreciate himself first.

 

so are you going to 'kick' him or are you going to embrace him? You said he's quite special.

 

I think she's just uncomfortable with the whole thing with you. The way she reacted, it's natural–almost a defence mechanism. Best for you to be yourself, and act normally as you would to anyone else (I know, easier said than done).

 

Yeah, I imagine she feels awkward. Give it a few weeks and things may be back to normal. Like you said though, you've learnt new skills!

 

At least she likes to play badminton so you two will meet again regularly on courts on own initiatives? Or this time was something you had to ask her to come and play?

 

I think you are pushing too fast, and expect too much within a short period of time. I think she knows about your intention, and you need to make sure she feels safe and comfortable 1st. Lower your expectation, and be yourself 1st.

Try not to push too aggressively, otherwise, she will simply shut the door on you. No need to follow her all the time, make friends around you, get her into a comfortable group. Then, evalute timely, and see if you can "change the direction" a lil bit here and there.

 

I don't think it's that bad. She didn't want to leave you with the impression that you should expect too much. But at the same time, she did come on your invitation. So she wants to stay friendly with you. I'd keep inviting her once awhile until she says or does differently. Inviting her means you wants to be a friend of her and exercise would be good for you or her. Whether she is or will be interested in you, only time will tell. Patience

 

hello

is there any badminton club near fanling or shatin have some good looking girls ga im going back to hk in july looking for a club to play please mail me back thank you.

 

i'll let him go.he'll ruined himself with me.

as for byrdy,i wish him best of luck.
byrdy,if she still doesnt accept u,just walk away.she may rejected u but with respect.walk away with a pride,brother.
dont ever beg.

 

i wish u good luck.
looking for a date here?u change my perception to ppls here.

 

hmmm hope i'm not thread jacking

i've just asked a girl out by saying do you wanna do something together after exams? and she said yes

just need to figure out where to go.

our exams end 1st week of feb.... too cold to be outside most likely and we don't drink coffee

 

all the best byrdy. Take your time.. probably in time you will meet a better one.

 

good luck byrdy. I really feel for you

 

if i were you, ask her to go out and play badminton, that's the best step to know more about her, to have answers to your questions...