should i ask her out?

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  1. Ayame

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    Yeah, that was pretty random...:D
     
  2. Birdwood

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    What’s not supposed not be there: the green hippos or the comment? Well, green hippos can be engineered nowadays, but natural mutations are needed for guys so they don’t fall head over heels :rolleyes:
     
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    The green hippos :D.
     
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    i dont think shes saying no over and over again to avoid me. she did say she might be able to come for a little on saturday
     
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    You seem to be quite determined :D. Now's the time when you wait for her to come to you :)... or else you might freak her out...
     
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    Dude, when she says she's "busy studying," she's just trying to be nice and let you down easy. I mean, really, who actually prefers studying to going out?
     
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    just challenge her by asking to study with her.
    U can then impress her with your school subjects:D
     
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    Just Forget that gal, she is not hot as u think she could be :cool:
    "Don't abandon the whole jungle just for a single tree" ;)
     
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    What if that tree is the only thing you see :confused::D

    Bro, it's easily said than be done :cool:
     
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    LOL . if there is only one tree, it is certainly not a jungle. Probably A desert :eek:
    It may be at ur house backyards :D
     
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    Don't give up on the lawn over a few flakes of bad grass. Wait.... this sounds a little too corny...
     
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    This is EXACTLY the same situation as me!

    I knew this girl who i talked to on the first day of class. Never spoke to her till the last day. And we got together to study for exams. After that she came over nearly every nite to watch rented movies and learn piano, for the whole december holidays. I got to know her more, she had no bf, but she got into a relationship upset with her to-be-bf. Her responses are very positive during this time. I slowly fell for her and told her how i felt. i'm also never desperate in my approach, unlike some of the guys who chased her. She is quite pretty by the way, many guys had tried to woo her.

    After that, our closeness seem to wane. Now, the only time i talk to her is when we go out to play badminton. She suggested this during the holidays but we did other stuff and left out badminton. Seemed like badminton is the ONLY stuff we do now. Nowadays, she doesnt reply my smses except for a few, msn chatting always come to me asking the last qn and having it unanswered... and she logs off.

    *sigh* i also dont know what to do from now. She claimed to treat me as a buddy and we really spoke out hearts out before. Our thoughts on relationships, our interest for each other, problems etc etc. All these are fading to naught. She also avoids going out with me one on one. We only went out for 1 movie, and a few shopping trips. Other than that, every other activity is closeted.

    I'm now like an activity friend only. Probably just to go out and exercise or something... Doesnt this whole thing look familiar?
     
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    Definitely there's no match for Msia jungles. Even if I had more trees in my backyard, it would still be a desert since there is no water in CA :rolleyes:

    More seriously, one's eyes can be easily blinded by .... and not see the whole landscape :cool:
     
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    Your situation is different from byrdy. You came off something and he never started, although you two ended up at the same place. I'd say ppl change after their perspectives of things changed :eek:

    This is another example that samuel882 would encourage you to look out for jungles beyond a single tree ;)

    But personally, I would talk to her about where you two stand on this issue and settle it so you and she are on the same page with a better understanding of what each of you is looking for and see whether there is anything to it besides being "close" friends :mad:
     
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    I find it kind of funny how all the guys seem to be opening up about their relationship dilemmas, while most of the girls are quietly observing, and probably absorbing, all the information for future reference and use.....:p
     
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    What university do you go to?
     
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    Dude, you have no hope here. Why don't you try to believe us?:rolleyes:

    Redirect your hormones to a more realistic target.:eek:
     
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    Something that should be replied to by PM (if he chooses to do so).
     
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    hey, you never know, persistence sometimes works. haha. ;)
     
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    It might work sometimes, but most of the time... the girl will get annoyed and hate you for life, hahaha! Just my thought... :D
     
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